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Sorry for totally spamming this subreddit with free art lately xD

Im looking to do some headshots today. So post your refs. I am going to pick ones I like best and draw a few

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Heya, Papa! 

It's Genesis. I think I may have sent you a letter before (scratch that, I know I sent you one, I just don't know what email or alias I may have used) and your response helped a lot. I'm glad to see you're still happy and healthy. 

I come to you today with a bit of a vague question, but a question nonetheless. It deals with confidence, surprise, surprise. A furry? Not confident? Nonsense. This one's a little different though, I swear. 

School season's in. I'm in all honors classes, passing them, but lately, school has been causing me a lot of trouble.

All of my friends appear to be getting straight A's, are going into IB (an even more rigorous course than honors), and it has begun to hurt my confidence. I'm in honors, yes, but I'm an A-B student (a lot more BS than I want), and I often slip up on tests.

So, I'm torn. I really don't like school. I hate the factory-line mentality, hate how I'm a sheep in a herd and I have to go through my day not questioning anything, but, on the other side of things, I feel like trying and devoting more time to school and getting those A's, therefore keeping up with my friends, would make me happier in the long run and improve my confidence. 

Now, before you say that old “don't compare yourself to others” line, hear me out. I kinda have to compare myself. The education system is extremely competitive, I need to keep up with my peers or one little furry isn't getting into college. 

I've always had confidence issues. I feel a constant need to prove myself. Lately, I hate when people call me smart, because I don't do anything smart, so I can't really agree with them on that. My intellect used to be the one thing I prided myself on. My appearance isn't that great, and indulging in hobbies that people often look down upon doesn't help. The one positive trait I assigned to myself was that I'm intelligent, so I cannot loose that trait. It may not seem like much, to doubt your intellect, but when it's all you have... 

I know I would be without doubt if I did better in school. It would be an easy way to show I was, indeed, smart, but I just really don't want to put in the effort to something I see as minuscule in the grand scheme of things. I see it as wasted effort. Call me lazy, but... 

Plus, if I did bump that up, would I really feel smart, or would I just find another thing to doubt myself on? (I might say something like, “I'm still only in Honors, if only I took IB like everyone else...”) 

So, my question is, how do I regain confidence? Should I try harder in school? Is there something else I should do? Or should I just look for another positive trait to latch onto, since I don't feel smart anymore? Accepting the fact I'm not a bright bulb could help, if I can move on from that. 

Thanks for reading my mess. 
Your raven, Genesis (age 15)
 
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Dear Genesis,
 
If I understand what you’re saying, you are not enjoying school because it is a machine for pumping out drones to enter the worker world. This is actually a brilliant observation and shows that you are actually smarter than your peers who are striving to do whatever they are told to make good grades, get into college, get a degree, and get some job as an attorney or accountant or doctor or some such thing.

Because you don’t enjoy the process, it makes it difficult for you to study (this isn’t being lazy, this is an intellectual conflict within you), and because you find it hard to study for an exercise in what you feel is futility, you don’t do a stellar job on tests. Understandable.

When Papabear was in college, he learned how to study for tests and get A’s and to write papers that also got A’s. You know what I remember from all that? Not very much. A teacher once told a class I was in that if, on her death bed, her students came up to her and could recite the basic principles of Existentialism, she would die content. Well, she probably won’t die content because of me.

Our formal education system, whether public or private, is designed to make us good American capitalist consumers—cogs in a huge wheel. History courses are the best examples of this. The text books are so full of half truths and downright lies that it is downright criminal (some states are worse than others, with Texas, for example, rewriting texts to say that slavery was not a reason for the Civil War and to include stuff from the Bible as if it were fact in science courses).

So, when you say you don’t feel “smart” because some of your peers make better grades, you need to realize that this is just one category of “smart.” You are measuring yourself based on a ruler designed to make you a materialistic conformist.

Let’s back up a bit and redefine “smart.”

There are three facets of the intellect:

• Knowledge: the capacity to store facts in the brain. This quality helps one win in “Jeopardy” or pass a test. It is often mistaken for intelligence.
• Intelligence: the capacity to reason and to come up with creative solutions to problems. A quality sorely lacking in our government and in large corporations, this is the ability to innovate that results in progress for the human species—at least on a technical level.
• Wisdom: the capacity to know when to employ knowledge and/or intelligence—and when not to. This is the theme of the novel Frankenstein: that is, just because you can create a live human being, should you? Just because you can create a nuclear warhead, should you? The wise person knows when to say no.

 
The facet of intellect that is encouraged at schools is mostly knowledge (although problem-solving is sometimes also part of the lesson plan). I don’t believe I have ever heard an example coming from schools in which teachers tried to explain wisdom to their students, however. And they certainly​ don't teach young people to question authority or the American way of life.

You might get a bit of a self-esteem boost by recognizing that you have the wisdom to question how you are being educated rather than just going through the numbers to get the paper to get the job to make the money to pay the taxes and go into debt and become another wage slave.

I would suggest that you take a step back and reevaluate your goals in life. Perhaps you need to simply change your course of study to something you will enjoy more (my sister switched from business to biology and was much happier, for example). Perhaps you need to think much farther ahead and decide what you would like to do in life, realizing that if you are doing something you love you will never work a day in your life. And remember: money isn’t everything.

Did I avoid the “don’t compare yourself to others” cliché well enough for you? ;-)

The other thing you need to do is work on that self-esteem of yours. Why exactly are you so hard on yourself? Sounds like you are beating yourself up for qualities about yourself because they don’t fit the “norm.” Perhaps you are not “conventionally pretty” and perhaps your hobbies are likewise unconventional. This doesn’t make you inferior; it makes you unique. I’ve always found unique people a lot more interesting than the human drones who otherwise flood our population. Celebrate your individuality; don’t chastise yourself for it.

One more thing: you might also set yourself apart by practicing something rare in our world: kindness. There are many intelligent and knowledgeable and successful people in this world, but there are not very many kind ones.
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Hugs,
Papabear

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Today's question:

If your 'Sona had 500,000 Dollars how would they spend it?

You may substitute dollars with your 'Sonas local currency

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submitted by Moosebutts
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After finding many FA furs were a part of Reddit, specifically the furry group here, I figured it was worth giving a shot. My fursona name (and FA handle) is Cocobanana. I create poetry and the occasional song, and my interests include movies, music, anime, video games, and sushi. Here's a picture by the artist Reimori (also on FA) of my fursona: http://www.furaffinity.net/view/16746093/

Looking forward to making a lot of friends here!

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Hey I need some more practice and I've got some more time, so feel free to send me your OCs to draw for you, requests will close at twelve on Sunday eastern time. Thanks guys, hope to have fun <3

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Okay so... this could either go horribly wrong, or provoke an interesting discussion, so I'mma risk it. (Please don't tear me limb from limb).

For artists:

I was wondering if any other content-creators on FA / Weasyl / dA / other sites have started noticing a decline in activity? Not so much in terms of favs or anything, but rather... comments, feedback and such tend to be given less and less it seems.

For commenters:

To go with the above question, what I'm also wondering is... what makes you as a commenter inclined to leave feedback, comments, etc.?

Personally speaking: I know I have to do my part in being active within the community (which I try to do as much as I can), but I can't help but feel some sites really seem to have kind of evolved into "Pinterest"-esque places. People save the pretty pictures (I really feel for the writers in the fandom, I really do. You guys have it rough on most sites), and then move on to the next picture.

Am I alone in this? How do people work against this? I'd be interested in hearing people's thoughts on the matter, to be honest. :D

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