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Dealing with an LDR breakup
So, I know a lot of furries are active in long distance relationships, as I was myself. I met this guy my age on the forum 'FurryTeens'. Yes, I am a teenager. And, for the last 5 months, we've been in a long distance relationship, skyping every night, texting 24/7, we were madly in love. Or so I thought. He was amazing, I absolutely loved him and every part of him. My parents liked him too, my father and I made plans to road trip up to see him (we had already met IRL). But, today, he called me. * He said he had been feeling like we were incompatible for awhile, which came as a huge shock to me. I... I just don't know how to deal with this. Of course I still have feelings for him, I still love him. I just don't know what the wisest course of action is.
Now, I know I'm probably going to get downvoted for posting relationship stuff in the furry forum, but, you guys are such a nice and wise bunch, I was just hoping to get some advice. Thanks in advance <3
- just a side note, things had been going on before. He would randomly get really depressed or angry, and would never tell me why. He would always say "If I told you, it would hurt you." Or the whole "You deserve someone better". I had always thought that was just him not in his right mind, but looking back, I think it was just him wanting to break up to too scared of hurting me to tell me. So, I was always very sweet and tried to cheer him up, and tell him 'We'll get through this. And I again, I was oblivious to what really was going to happen. So needless to say, I'm crushed. And he told me he liked me, just not as a partner. And I get that, except for the fact that we were in a relationship for shy of half a year. And, I'm probably just over-thinking everything at this point, but was this whole thing for waste?
I came out to my parents not because he asked me too, but to show how amazing he was, and because I knew he was going to make an impact on my life, and they deserved to know about it. I bought him birthday gifts, and never received one. I loved him, and poured my heart and soul into him. I still love him. But it's crushing me to know, it might've been for waste. ;~;
submitted by Thecoltonfactor[link] [14 comments]
Help? Artist Needed
is there anyone who would be willing to do a quick sketch of my fursona?? he's a black fox with glasses, green eyes, and a white underbelly and lower jaw he wears a white button up shirt, black tie, and black v neck tee over all of it i can pay with DeviantArt points, or i could do an art trade... www.penadoxblackmoon.deviantart.com/ thanks!!
submitted by insanitune[link] [6 comments]
10-Year-Old Furry Is Afraid to Tell Parents
I recently found out about furries ad I have became one because it makes me feel good and no longer shy. I have tails I use but I don't know how to explain to parents... I'm very nervous.
Shadow Wolf
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Hi, Sweetie,
I think you’re about the youngest furry to write me so far. Nice to hear from you :-3
The problem a lot of new furries seem to have is that they buy into the notion that being a furry is somehow bad or wrong just because it is not something most people do. Getting your mom and dad to understand that being a furry is just a fun thing and not a threat or scary in any way should be as simple as saying, “Hey, Mom and Dad, guess what? I like Bugs Bunny cartoons!” Who would be upset by that? And, as for wearing a tail and such, playing “dress up” is part of most kids’ childhoods, even those who aren’t furries.
I’d like you to watch this video from my friends at FurMedia. It is a parent explaining her reactions to and acceptance of her furry children:
http://www.livestream.com/furmedia/video?clipId=pla_415ae6b2-e180-473e-a5e2-6541276fc511&utm_source=lslibrary&utm_medium=ui-thumb
You can show that to your parents, if you like.
As I’ve said in other letters, of course, telling your family about your furriness also depends on how open-minded they are. Some parents are very controlling, protective, and offended by anything out of the ordinary; other parents—the good ones—will see that being a furry makes you happy and they will support you. If your parents are like that, there is nothing to fear.
You can also aid in this process by learning more about furry and its history. You know, modern furry began simply as a bunch of sci-fi/fantasy buffs who liked anthropomorphic characters. They got together talked about books and movies that had characters who were animals but could also talk or had other human qualities. It continued from there to what it is today: an incredibly diverse fandom with people in it who have a wide range of interests.
Caution your parents that not all furries are the same, and make it clear to them what kind of furry you are.
If it will help, tell your parents they can write to Papabear and ask questions about the fandom. I would be happy to answer anything they would like to talk about.
Welcome to the fandom! Don’t be scared. You now have a furry family!
Papabear
Animation: ‘The Boxtrolls’; are trolls anthropomorphic?
Maybe fellow furs can help?
I've been a fur for years, and I've been different furs. But I just haven't found what Fursona is perfect for me. I know I want something unique...but what?! Ideas from fellow furs maybe?
submitted by cottonkandiprincess[link] [21 comments]
Trailer: ‘How to Train Your Dragon 2?
Arraborough Book Two, ‘The Darkness’, now available
Please, come vote for your favorite stories of this new weekly writing contest!
Link to /r/furry_wordsmith thread:
http://fr.reddit.com/r/Furry_Wordsmith/comments/1h8ww1/badass_weekly_writing_contest_go/
(Vote over there)
We've had three entries for this first week! Each about 1500 words. You are strongly encouraged to vote for the winner which will choose the next theme. Voting will be over in a little less than 20 hours.
Direct link to stories (By post date):
/u/RandomPotato : http://www.furaffinity.net/view/10976020/
/u/Nsyse (Me): https://www.furaffinity.net/view/11010118/
/u/KorrenTheFox : https://www.furaffinity.net/view/11047210/ mirror http://www.sofurry.com/view/561625
This is probably the last time I personnally post about this friendly contest on /r/furry. Subscribe to /r/furry_wordsmith for more stories!
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My friend is doing awesome themed trading card commissions, check her out!
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/4691784/
Hey, y'all! My friend is doing some really cool little trading card (think almost like a badge, if you are having a hard time picturing it) commissions, and still has quite a few slots left. I think her art is really awesome, personally, and at the very least you guys could check her out. Made this a text post so you don't think I'm trying to karma reap for art or anything like that. Check her stuff out, give her a commission if you like her stuff, or at least a watch!
submitted by PornoPichu[link] [3 comments]
A tail even Dr. Seuss would be proud of!
Episode 23: I is what I is
Stormfire
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/stormfire
Self-defense
http://waltherpragerandphilosophy1.blogspot.ro/2013/02/self-defense.html
submitted by jikro43[link] [3 comments]