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On the way to and from BLFC, it became clear to me that the secrecy was probably worse than actually telling her, and that it was like a black cloud following me to every event. Since she and her fiancé were going to be here last night, I decided to bring them into the inner circle.

I started by telling them I went to a convention for "people who like wearing or looking at a certain type of costume." Of course, they asked what kind of costumes I meant, so I showed them a few pictures of my fursuit. They actually really liked it, so I offered to show it to them. After getting into it and walking downstairs, there was even more interest in it.

Interestingly, they even discussed briefly what characters they would be if they were a part of the fandom, and expressed interest in going to a local furmeet with me at some point. In other words...

One of us. One of us. One of us...

TL;DR: Without mentioning furries specifically, I told her and her fiancé about what I was doing. They actually really liked the idea, and once even briefly discussed what fursonas they would have if they were a part of the fandom. They also told me that attending an event with me in the future was of interest.

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Submitted by Fred Patten, Furry’s favorite historian and reviewer. Back in August 2013, Rod O’Riley’s In-Fur-Nation brought us the first news of Skynamic Studios’ “True-Tail” Adobe Flash animation series in preproduction.  “A place where six unruly mercenaries must learn to work together … Or succumb to an ancient dark magic.”  The six are Caleb, a […]

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Hello everyboy! I'm a member of the Planet Nakti Dream Team, the team that works on the development of Planet Nakti, a community-driven anthro universe.

I am looking for 3d modelers (character modelers in particular), artists and sprite makers, who can also work as general illustrators for our project and help us in the development of the videogame that we will set on Nakti. Our game will use the Unity 3D engine, so we are looking for programmers, modelers and sprite-makers who know how to use Unity, since our game will use a raycasting engine (similar to Doom/Duke Nukem 3D), but we also appreciate people who can work on RPG Maker and the BUILD engine and other ones that can be used for a roleplay/exploration game. Our main game will be made with Unity 3D, but there might be spin-offs made with other engines.

If you are interested in our project, please send me a message with your email, so I can invite you to our official Chatroom.

If you want to know more about our project, check out the "Bible" of planet Nakti, our Wiki: http://nakti.wikia.com/

We also have an official forum, currently under construction at this link: http://nakti.net/forum

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Well, I'm learning acoustic guitar, and I saw some artists here, but was wondering if there are any musicians, and, what's your instrument? c:

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Dated May 21, here is an article on syracuse.com, the website of The Post-Standard of Syracuse, New York:

http://www.syracuse.com/entertainment/index.ssf/2015/05/rochester_furrycon_2015_begins_furries_say_theyre_misunderstood.html

The article discusses this weekend's FurryCon, and includes interviews with attendees Hoth and Zeigler.


ROCHESTER, N.Y. -- Today is the first day of FurryCon, the only anthropomorphic convention for furry fandom in New York state.

Rochester's annual five-day event unites hundreds of people who identify as "furries." They create their own characters based on favorite animals, then spend the weekend socializing, dancing and attending panels in character, sometimes in costume.

Furry fandom gets a bad rap, thanks to a string of kinky magazine stories and a "CSI: Crime Scene Investigation" episode. Furries are well-aware of their public perception. They readily refuse interviews. All press are barred from FurryCon 2015.

Two furries agreed to chat for this story on the condition we don't use their names. We used their "fursonas."

Hoth, a furry from Central New York, will attend FurryCon this year. She says her fursona, an arctic fox, is very personal.

"Your character is what you feel you'd be like if you were an animal or anthropomorphic being, or a fantasy character of what you wish you were like," she said. "I don't walk around thinking, 'I'm a fox!'"

Zeigler, a communications professional from Skokie, Ill., has attended Midwest FurFest near Chicago three times and Anthrocon (founded in Albany) in Pittsburgh twice. His fursona is a jaguar.

"I don't believe my character is my true self, trapped in a human body," said Zeigler, 27. "It's an avatar, a way to represent myself in an artistic medium."

Furry beginnings

Historically, modern furry fandom splintered off the sci-fi cons of the 1980s, but people have been humanizing animals in art and literature for centuries.

Look at Anubis in Ancient Egyptian art or the coyote in Native American myths. Look at modern fairy tales, like Goldilocks and the three bears. Consider Disney's portrayal of Robin Hood as a fox. Aslan. Barney. Big Bird. They're all entry points into the fandom.

Conceptually, furries are pure science fiction. It's a draw for creative individuals. Many furries are artists or writers. But they're also bankers, teachers and business professionals.

Zeigler describes furry fandom as the bottom of the massive nerd totem pole. You've got your Whovians, your Harry Potterheads, Whedonites, Twi-hards and so on. Then you've got your furries.

"We're the people the Trekkies look down on," Zeigler said. "For a long time we've been the punching bags for the entire nerd hierarchy, but it takes a certain self-confidence to take that degree of wild mockery."

Furry fandom isn't a monoculture. Both Hoth and Zeigler can't speak for the masses, but they shared what they believe are the major misconceptions of furry fandom.
5 misconceptions of furry fandom

Misconception #1: Furry fandom = fetish

Let's address the elephant in the room, pun intended.

"The stereotype in the minds of those outside the fandom is that furries participate in one big, plushy orgy," Zeigler said.

He and Hoth blame that reputation on the "highly distorted" portrayal of furries in that 2003 CSI episode. The episode, titled "Fur and Loathing," depicted furries as sexual deviants detached from reality. Perverts in plush.

"It was hilariously inaccurate and it was seen by millions of people," he said. "That stupid CSI episode probably runs somewhere every single day."

In 2010, Skaneateles native and filmmaker Curt Pehrson attended the Midwest Furfest to make a documentary called "Furries: An Inside Look." (See it below.)

Pehrson interviewed several furries for the documentary and learned many reporters would focus on the fandom as some kind of kinky outlet.

"It makes furries very defensive," said Pehrson. "Some people will say they're sexually attracted to animals, and that's absurd. "It's like saying someone who likes horseback riding is sexually attracted to horses."

In any large group of people, particularly young people, surely a few would be inclined to experiment sexually? Hoth says some people do go to conventions with the goal of having a sexual experience.

"I don't really know how they operate at a con, because that's not my goal while I'm there," Hoth said. "Any fandom has weirdos, but they're typically the minority."

Zeigler hasn't met any.

"The idea of conventions as orgies is a complete myth," Zeigler said. "People have sex. The huge lie is that it's prevalent in costume."

Zeigler says the entire concept became taboo in furry communities because it's how they've been defined in popular imagination.

"It's been wildly damaging to the fandom's public image," he said.
Furries-2010-2.jpgFurries attend the Midwest FurFest in 2010.Curt Pehrson | Video still from "Furries: An Inside Look"

Misconception #2: All furries dress up like animals

Don't get furries confused with fursuiters.

A furry is anyone playing an anthropomorphic animal character, but a fursuiter is anyone who dresses like that character.

"So many people think furries all have a big, cartoony suit," Zeigler said. "Most people don't."

At conventions, he says maybe 10 or 15 percent will wear a partial costume: a furry glove, head, paw or tail. Others may look completely normal.

Hoth doesn't own a fursuit. They're expensive, ranging from a couple hundred dollars to several thousand dollars.

"I'm big into the role-playing part of the fandom," she said. "The suits do cost a lot and I have different priorities right now."

Misconception #3: Furries dress like animals to shock people

Zeigler spent many years without a suit. He decided he wanted a suit after borrowing one and wearing it on a golf course.

"There were all these seniors there who loved it," he said. "We created a story for somebody to tell at dinner that night. It was so much fun to be part of that."

For him, it's about making memories. This year, he felt financially secure enough to buy a handmade jaguar suit. It will cost him $3,800.

"I went with one of the best," he said. "But I know a guy who spent $15,000 on a handwoven suit from a Hollywood special effects company."

At the biggest furry conventions, you'll find the highest-end suits. Some furries get light-up eyes, moving jaws or padding to make them look muscular.

"Some people find it intrinsically creepy and that's fine," Zeigler said. "They judge based on quarter truths, rampant misinformation and their own sense of discomfort with the entire concept."

Misconception #4: Furries are always in character

At conventions, furries are especially indulgent in their characters, so Zeigler says first-time attendees often assume this is how furries always act.

"People think furries live their entire lives in their suits," he said. "This doesn't define our entire existence. We have day jobs and 98 percent of our lives is doing perfectly normal things."

Most furries have to be working professionals, Zeigler said, because active fandom costs money. Attending a convention can cost $500 for one weekend.

Some furries legitimately identify more as animal than human, but it's just a fantasy hobby for Zeigler.

"If it's preventing you into being a contributing member of society, you're doing it wrong," he said.

Pehrson said some people take on characters as a hobby, while some use it as escapism, perhaps to address their own social anxieties.

"It's a creative outlet for some people," he said. "Maybe it's a bit weird but it's not hurting anyone."

Misconception #5: Furries try to convert people

Pehrson thinks this stereotype is ridiculous.

"I think furries are nice people and will invite people to come along, but it's not proselytization," he said.

Zeigler says furry fandom tends to go wrong when fans try to convince people it's normal, when people aren't mentally prepared to accept it.

"You have to acknowledge the quirkiness," he said. "But is it that much odder than a guy who puts on cheesehead and pays $500 to sit in the freezing cold and scream at the Vikings? We accept that as a standard in American culture. It's a matter of perspective."

No one egged him on to join. Zeigler first encountered furry culture as a teen. Someone in his class regularly wore a tail in high school. He later started dating a girl who was part of the fandom.

"I started going to conventions and met the most wonderful people," Zeigler said. "I was kicking myself for not joining 8-9 years ago."

Now he regularly plays golf, poker and softball with friends he made at furry conventions and meetups.

"It was the best thing that ever happened for my social life and overall being," he said.

FurryCon runs from Thursday, May 21 through Monday, May 25 in Rochester.

I saw a couple of this type of posts here, but never for the Balkan region. So i decided to change that.

I come from Croatia.

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Generally I think I'm fairly well equipped for situations that require empathy.

I'm straightforward but I know when to sugar coat it. Which probably just means I'm manipulative.

My worst trait is probably my constant self depreciation. People tell me I'm too hard on myself. I'm the last one to see good in myself and even then that's only after someone tells me about it.

Self evaluation is a good thing to do every now and then.

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Edit: I feel like done grammar good.

I'm really bad at coming up with things about myself that I think are worth talking about, so I'll preface this by saying that people are going to have to coax more out of me with questions...

I've slowly become less and less of a lurker here for quite a while now. I am actually terrible at opening up to people and letting people get to know me (social anxieties - you've probably heard it all before), so this might be kind of a big (hopefully positive) step for me, seeing as I usually try to keep myself hidden away.

I'm a guy who tends to forget his age (it's 24 or something), currently working in software testing, with plans to switch career into something more creative and maybe start writing/drawing a sci-fi comic series in whatever spare time I can get until then. I got into liking furry stuff the same way most kids who grew up in the 90s did - cartoons. Then video games. Then webcomics... All of which I still love today, even if I can't dedicate as much time to them.

I guess the main reason I'm posting this up now is that I'm going through a kind of rough patch in life - I hate my job, I'm losing contact with the few good friends I have because of work schedules and I generally hate myself to the point of caring about very little for weeks at a time. I probably would have made a post like this a couple of weeks ago if I wasn't so full of apathy. The three things keeping me going right now are stubbornness, art and this subreddit - so if I'm going to open myself up to people, I can't think of any better place.

I'm terrible at writing things when I'm not making stuff up.

tl;dr: Friends? Chat? Questions?

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I'm going into town to revise. Back in a couple of hours! :D

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He's a furry, so I figured it was relevant

Edit: I just noticed that his most recent video has a joke in it that some could interpret as "anti furry" if they don't know his sense of humor. If you're new to YMS, just keep in mind that his humor can be self-deprecating at times.

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Studying? Night-shift? Can't sleep? "I'm in a different timezone from you and it's totally normal to be awake right now, you American-centric jerk!"

My tinnitus is so bad right now for no apparent reason, I can't sleep, please talk to me I am bored and so so tired. ;_;

SIDE-REQUEST: What are your favorite relaxing/chill/ambient songs? Sing me a lullaby, /r/furry !

EDIT: the boyfriend-police is awake and has informed me I need to try to sleep. I WILL LISTEN TO EVERY SONG POSTED IN THIS THREAD THOUGH.

Night, y'all! Thanks for talking at me. :D

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