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Come hang out! Hanging with the gang, taking some requests for 30 minute sketches! Free of course!

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So How many of you guys here like furry characters with neck fluffs?

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Hey first ever post to this SubReddit, hell first post on Reddit in general. anyway I'm just posting to ask is there any other mice out there... I'm just curious cause I've never met another one...Anyway thanks for clicking i guess. ( feel like such a noob XD)

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 Dear Papabear,

Ohhh...This sounds so stupid...Sorry to bother you with my presence, but I have a problem...It may sound stupid to you, I think it is just more then that. It is about my family...

If you took a look at my personal information, you will see that I am a 31 year old male, some may already guessed. Yes, I am the father. The thing is that I have a beautiful passionate wife and a very cute daughter. I am Christian, but a very liberal one. Thus, this is not about religion, it is about my family like I said earlier.

My daughter is 12 now, and both my wife and me are ready for her problematic phases. So, I work as a police officer, and my wife is a teacher in a elementary school in Phoenix.

Now that you know that, let’s get to the problem. It has always turned out that my daughter has a stronger bond with my wife, not that I hate it, but it just bothered me because no matter how much hard I try, she still loves my wife more. They would often go to dinner together, same with picnics...They would often watch Disney movies and G rated stuff. My wife was very happy when the doctor diagnosed that she was pregnant, she was VERY happy. And then she gave birth to my daughter which I will call Claire-not her real name. And lets call me wife Susan-not the real name either.

They would often go "somewhere," they just said that they were going "somewhere." But I was not so worried about that, I was worried about, why do I always get left behind?
I was thinking about it for 4 years straight. Now I know why.

Two days ago, I made a decision. I opened my wife’s laptop and saw a lot of pictures with her, my daughter and a lot of people in what seems to be mascot costumes. I was confused at first, not knowing what it was. I quickly browsed her google history and discovered that the history is nearly full of some "Furry stuff.” I opened up a site named "FurAffinity" and saw that is a site with anthropomorphized animals, that’s what is says. Then I later discovered that she visited sites about "furcons." "So that's where they are going all the time!" I said to myself.

From that point I felt betrayed, and I was angry. Since I was the only one home, I closed her laptop and went to my personal computer to investigate it. I searched stuff like "furcons" and "furries"... After 3 hours of investigation, I came to the conclusion that they are in what it seems to be "the furry fandom.” I also saw your website in Susan's history. I remembered that it was a site with "help.” So I went there and read a few columns.After reading a few,I also discovered what it was about.Before I remembered to visit your site, I was ready to start a fight with my wife and my daughter with the argument: "So, why were you hiding this from me?!".I was ready to ruin my life, but then, I said to myself: "Listen, Garry, you may just be overreacting there. You may ruin your perfect life and lose all things precious to yourself."

So, now that I know that Susan and Claire are furries. I came here for advice...I am worried. I remembered that episode that tells of the fandom on MTV. Or that CSI episode that I watched...But, considering that Television is full of bullshit, and the owners want to milk money out of normal people, I decided to investigate, not jump to conclusions. Strong words?

Now I know why we did not have sex for 7 months. Now I know why they go "somewhere." But on the other hand... Maybe they are afraid of telling me about themselves. Maybe they are afraid of how I would react.

What should I DO?! I REALLY DONT KNOW what to do...Do you think I can just tell her: "Hey Susan I browsed your history why you were not home and found out that you and Claire are furries!" I don't see how that would work.

Thanks for reading this, I really need help and advice!
 
Garry (age 31)
 
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Hi, Garry,
 
Thanks for writing me. I can't tell from your letter everything that is going on here, but I think the fundamental problem is a failure on both your and your wife and daughter's part to simply communicate. 
 
I think what is in order here is for you to just open up and break the ice. Tell your wife and daughter, together, that, hey, you really feel kind of left out and want to be more a part of their lives. Tell them that you know they are furries (if they ask how you know, just say you were upset and felt they were not telling you everything, so, yes, you looked at the computer history), and that that is fine! You want to learn more about why they like being furries and to please let you be a part of it. 
 
You may be right that they are making some false assumptions about you; perhaps that has something to do with your being a police officer, I don't know. Perhaps you have more difficulty expressing yourself verbally than you do in a letter such as the one you wrote. I'm seeing a very caring and loving father and husband in your words; are your daughter and wife seeing that, as well?
 
You don't have to be a furry yourself to be part of this aspect of their lives (my husband is not a furry; he's "furry friendly" and we have a nice time at furcons). By being open to it, you can only come off as a cool dad in your daughter's eyes, and that should help you come closer together. 
 
The one part that makes me a bit concerned is about your saying you have not had sex with your wife in 7 months. Does this coincide with her being active in the furry community? Perhaps she needs a bit more imaginative role play in her life, and you can certainly provide that. You need to discuss this with her; it's not fair of her to withhold sex from you and it might be a good idea for the two of you to seek some counseling in this area if it is a real problem.
 
Let me know your thoughts on the above and we can talk about this some more. None of this sounds "stupid" to me, by the way, and it is in no way a bother. You and your family have some legitimate issues and you need to work them out. I have a good feeling that all three of you are great people who love each other, but you need to open up and talk more than you do. If I can't help, then please do seek a professional for some moderated counseling.
 
Take care and keep in touch,
Papabear
 
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Thanks for replying, uhhh...Kevin?
 
Sorry, there is a part I left out, I forgot about it. Now I understand why did they do that.
 
One day-I think that it was 8-7 months ago- I was just minding my own business just got back from work, and sat on my ol' reliable sofa and just sat there watching TV. My wife was anxious and she have had a look like she wanted to tell me something. But she did not. I did not think much about it, I just continued watching TV. Half a hour later, I heard laughing upstairs, so I quickly went upstairs to see what is going on. My daughter and wife must've heard me, they quickly stopped what they were doing and my daughter started reading a book, and my wife quickly started watching something else on her laptop...-To make this quick for you, they were watching a furcon, and I did not know of it in that time-I went in the room and asked what were they doing. She replied and said that I should watch this video with her-On her laptop- and tell her what I think. It was clearly a video about a furcon with a lot of people in "mascot costumes" as I called them. I was laughing and I thought it was a joke and commented:"Ahahahahah,what are these people doing? Haha...And these people in mascot costumes must have sad lives... hahahaha... So what is this? People who dress as animals, sorry honey but you know I am not into it."-Something like that. And I thought it was a joke video and since both my wife and daughter laughed previously, I decided it was okra bad decision. Did I mention that my wife and I did not have...sex in 7 months? Maybe this is the reason. If only I knew!
 
And did I mention that they were animal lovers? They LOVED them so much, I even bought them a puppy...but still, nothing. Even that dog took my place :(.
 
You are right, they are great people, I really love them, I do not want to lose  them. And no, they do not have nothing against me because I am a police officer.
 
So, I should just open myself and tell them everything? Ok, I will try...
 
Thanks for replying! See you!
 
Garry
 
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Hello again Papabear.
 
I know that you are busy with helping other furries in need of help, sorry that I am bothering you so much...
 
I listened to your advice and I just wanted to let you know what happened.
 
Okay, so I was going out to dinner in a restaurant with both my wife and my daughter. They seemed anxious and I wanted to say everything that was bothering me. The atmosphere was romantic, you know, French style :).Then I felt like I have to say it, "now or never!" I said to myself. So, I basically just told them everything. EVERYTHING.
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And they told me (Well it was just my wife) everything that bothered them, she said that she was scared to tell me, she thought that I would leave her if she says that she is a furry along with our daughter...She was really worried about me, that is all.
 
Ohhh.... And after the dinner, we went back home-obviously-and guess what? We had sex 5 TIMES ... LITTERALY ALL NIGHT! WOW!
 
I am in a hurry now, need to get ready for a picnic with my family, I missed them so much...
 
And now, even I am a furry, it is wonderful! I do not know how to thank you Papabear! You gave me time to find my motivation on how to tell them... It may look like you helped a little, but you really helped a lot!
 
SO, THANK YOU!
 
Have a nice day and a wonderful life!
 
Garry
 
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Hi, Garry,
 
That's wonderful!

I had a feeling they weren't saying anything because they were afraid to. Now you are a happy furry family :-)

If it's okay with you, I am now going to put this on my website. OK?

Thanks for updating me.
Papabear
 
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Of course,furriend! Deep free to post it! You saved me from the regular boring human life! My wife has plans for us,like,fursuits!Again THANK YOU! FURRIES ARE PAWSOME (furry language ;)). And I am replying on my mobile...Goodbye!
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