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One Mate Is Monogamous, One Is Polygamous
I am having real issues with my relationship with my mate.... It's turned out to be things I never thought or wanted it to be. Firstly, I want to say we are engaged and we have been together about one year. Basically, my mate has a master, is constantly looking for other mates, and is master to many pets. My mate constantly looks for local pets to yiff with. He says he just has to yiff with other people or it will just end badly. I inevitably just tell him "whatever," and then I just go mope in the corner cause I can't seem to make my mate feel good and so he needs other people.
I have told him all this and he just tells me "it feels different." My mate is always telling his pets he loves them and that he bonds with his pets so it's not just yiff. I have told him that all this makes me feel less special and like he could just replace me if he wanted to, but he still says that I am different from them.
Now on to the bad stuff.... I'm not too proud to say I hacked into my mate's computer and read his chat logs, but when I did I found so many things I never knew. He has told multiple people that I will not have any bearing on him and them. Also he apparently has a pet with an std, which he has told he would play with him if it wasn't for the fact that it would totally piss me off if he did. I know I have blamed someone else before when I did not want to do something, so I figure maybe that is what he was doing, but I really don't know.
In conclusion my main question is, "is this love?" We really used to be really lovey dovey and I figured that wouldn't last, but now my mate just sits on his computer talking to people and yiffing people on Second Life. So is this love? Should I leave him?
Signed,
Lost Lion
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Dear Lost Lion,
It is very clear to Papabear that you and your mate want different things. You are uncomfortable with his yiffing other people and RPing online with them; he has a very strong sex drive and apparently wants to be polygamous.
Your mate might be sincere that his love for you is different than what he feels for his pets and other playmates. In fact, I believe he IS sincere. However, that is not important. What IS important is how YOU feel. You are obviously not okay with it. It makes you feel bad and unwanted. You are not happy with your relationship this way, and it is clear your relationship has descended into distrust (as noted by your spying on him).
YOUR feelings are just as important as his, and if the two of you do not share the same sexual desires and needs your relationship cannot last. Unless you can resolve the situation to both your satisfactions (and I encourage you to try again), then, yes, it is time for you to find other people to be mates with.
I wish you luck. I know this is painful, but you have to do what is right for you.
Hugs,
Papabear
Playing on my boyfriend's iPad; how did I do?
Another $2 sketch run! 10 Slots to be filled.
Art Request/Potential Practice Opportunity
ATTENTION ARTISTS. I am about ready to have my suit commissioned. However, I do not have time to sit down and draw my fursona over and over so I am having trouble when visualizing the final design. I have a general idea and know the colors I would like. I also have a few rough sketches so you are not starting with just a blank slate. I also know the things I want and do not want. So... I am willing to offer someone the chance to help put my ideas to canvas and create a simple sketch, or even a full reference sheet for my fursona. This gives an opportunity for someone to practice drawing a new character that they have not seen or drawn before. Oh and this is not a request for free art lol. If you do help I will be sure to compensate you for your time. Also if this belongs in /r/fursuit or /r/furryartschool please feel free to point that out haha. Please feel free to PM me if you are interested. Thanks guys!
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Game Art from Japan
Solatorobo: Red the Hunter is an Ursa Major Award-nominated video game from Japan which (according to its Wikipedia page) is “a spiritual sequel to the Tail Concerto game”, which was also released by Namco Bandai. Now the anime/manga fan site Otaku.com has let us know that the Solatorobo Sketch Book is available for import, and you can order it on their site. It’s expensive (kind of), but it this softcover book features some striking anime-style furry art.
image c. 2012 Namco Bandai
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any Australiaqn furs out there?
me and my friend dafodil areAaustralian furs and we don't know any other furs in NSW we just want to know if thier is anyone else out there because it would be cool to know ( I highly doubt that there will be any one though) and I only just relized I missed spelt Australian in the title......fuck
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FC-85 Secreting Gay Demons
KnotCast: Episode 177 – Ooky Spooky
‘True Life’ still keen to film furs, but Brits want therians
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Nordguard gets dicey
Looks here like the Nordguard game is all finished up and read for pre-order. As I posted before about this crazy cool game, it will feature lots of great art work and diced game challenge. You’ll also be able to get it in Deluxe and Standard editions. So head over HERE to check it out now. I can see your all gitty now to pick it up, but you will need to wait until May 26th so calm down.
Episode 177 - Ooky Spooky
I have a few questions..
and #2) Where would I get accessories for my fursuit? (Mine is a wolf-dog hybrid, while my friends is a wolf-hyena mix.) Such as collars, and other things that might be cool to add to a fursuit?
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Do you ever feel alone? Fursona-related
I'm 22, and I've been part of the furry fandom for close to ten years now. When I was younger I spent a lot of time trying to figure out what species fit me. I went through the whole shebang, before I realized that a St. Bernard was the perfect fursona for me. Through all of the furry sites, cons, and every other place I talk to furs, I've never met another St. Bernard. A lot of people tell me how unique and exciting I am. I take it with a grain of salt though. I like being unique, but it makes me feel kind of alone.
Does anyone else have similar feelings?
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