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I'm not much of an artist but I want to meet more furries. I'm not really sure where to start. I've never done RP though i'm interested in trying. Even any online chats.

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I actually went so far as to ask them if I could travel to Anthrocon or something because I have more east coast furry friends than west coast... And then they were just like "meh, you should stay local." However, if I take a bunch of pictures, maybe I'll get permission to go bigger :P

So uh, yeah, who's going to FC? I don't want to be like, completely alone there, haha

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Hello, Papa Bear.

Sometimes I feel like I am the most hopeless gay guy in the world. I've lived through quite a lot of summers, and yet I feel very miserable because both my love and sexual lives have been almost non-existent.

I would like a guy that could satisfy both the empty feelings in my heart, and the cravings in the other regions further below. And yet, I feel completely helpless and clueless trying to figure out how I could find myself some “friend with benefits,” much less a lover. I'm terribly shy, and can't function at all in most places where one most likely could find other gay people. I seriously doubt I could find love at a museum or a movie theater, but those are some of the few places I can go and not freak out before even putting a step in.

And there is the matter of sex. The few times I've been with other guys, it has never resulted in anything even close to ecstasy; I eventually lose my erection while the other guy finishes in my butt. In fact, I have never even come one single time. It makes me wonder if orgasms are just a myth, and has resulted in me shunning sex and making my shyness even worse.

To make it worse, sometimes when I am alone at home (which is most of my life, other than my time at work or doing errands) I feel like wanting to fuck a twink's ass as if the world were gonna end the next day. And yet if I were to cross paths with said twink, I know I would just shy away and not say a word to him.

Sometimes I wonder if fate just simply decided that I am not destined to have a partner in this life, or even friends (I can count the ones I have with one hand, and still have fingers left over). Or could it be that it the problem is just in my head, and I need to see a shrink that can set me straight? (As in in the right path, not the orientation.)

Sad reptile in the Mountains (Colorado, age 50)

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Dear Sad,

Thanks for reaching out. I hope I can help. There’s a lot going on in this one letter, so I will try and go through it step by step.

First, there is the shyness issue. Interestingly, I just wrote about shyness for another writer, and you can find my reply here. Just overcoming your shyness should do a lot for your search for a partner.

Secondly, although you don’t describe what you have done so far to look for a partner, have you tried dating sites? Are you searching for a furry partner or any partner, furry or mundane? There are furry dating sites just as there are mundane dating sites like Match.com (although you might want to try a gay dating site (gaydating.com). Furry dating sites include www.furrydate.com, www.meetfurries.com, www.furrymate.com, and www.pounced.com. 

But even if you find someone who is a match on one of those sites, your shyness could hamper you. A good way to overcome that is to meet at places where you are comfortable (you mention theaters and museums). You can increase your chances for finding a partner by getting involved with groups that share your interests. For example, you could become a volunteer docent at your local museum, or perhaps there is a local group of gay men who go on outings to movies and stage plays. Or, since you’re a furry, have you tried attending a furcon? Rocky Mountain Furcon could be one for you, or join the Colorado Springs Furry Alliance (see info here http://www.americanfurryassociation.org/co-consmeets.html). Participate in outside activities with groups of people who share your interests and you will dramatically increase your chances of finding someone. I know you’re terribly shy, but it’s easier to overcome such shyness when you know you’re among friends who like the same things you do.

As for the sex—as I always say, if you’re not having fun, then you’re not doing it right. I can certainly tell you that orgasms are not a myth :-P My suspicion, from your letter, is that you aren’t just looking for sex, you’re looking for romantic lovemaking, and when some guy is topping you and you’re not feeling the love, you lose interest. It sounds really hot at first, but when reality knocks at your door, what really turns you on is a passionate merging of bodies inspired by love, not lust. That’s actually a good thing! It means that once you do find someone you’re going to have a very strong bond with them satisfying both your loins and your heart.

Since you mention some of your sexual experiences, it is apparent that you have had some success finding people to get into bed with; you just haven’t found the right person. I’m sure there must be someone out there for you. There is for everyone 

Do not blame “fate” for your current loneliness. You have a lot of power and control over your own destination. You just have to take the bull by the horns and show him who’s boss. Take a look at my earlier letter about shyness, and hopefully that will help. And write again if this response didn’t help or missed the mark somehow.

Good luck!

Papabear

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So I was introduced to this subreddit by a friend of the opposite sex and my first reaction was "WTF is this?" But upon further 'research' I don't know how to proceed with this, I mean I kinda like it but I'm still very skeptical. The fact that this friend I shall call Kelly is really into this, I don't know if I should embrace it or move on.

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I have tried Omegle, but it keeps banning my shared network (huge apartment complex with shared connection).

Gender and orientation is of no relevance. But I would prefer no registration required.

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Author: rodney Here’s another one that somehow slipped through the cracks: A group of fans have been working on their own to try and create a movie adaptation of the Spellsinger series of fantasy novels, having secured the rights from writer Alan Dean Foster in 2011. Live action? Animation? Their web site isn’t very clear […]

Guest post by Thesis White. Thesis is a writer-artist, cognitive science student, and peachy dalmatian who loves creating their own discourse. (Thesis is on Twitter and FX.)

The furry identity is thought by many to be one of sexual and romantic liberation, where furs can engage in relationships with others, bound by a shared sense of playfulness and fetishism. Not all furries have exclusively romantic interests towards others within the fandom; I myself am mated with a non-fur. However, where there is much literature about sexuality and relationships in the furry world, it is outside of what I’m going to discuss. More interesting and dynamic than our sexuality is the uniquely furry distortions of gender.

The internet facilitates our ability to be furry. For most furries, furryness is an interest and a self-identification through a fursona, but to understand it, we must understand its origins. A legacy of human-animal hybrids throughout mythology and 20th-century fiction is behind us, and in our early years exists televised pictures of Bugs Bunny and Balto. Where originally the mythical monstrosities of human and animal were to be feared as gods and demons in the flesh, modern anthropomorphics are adored primarily by children in an intimate relationship between entertainer and audience.

What types of images did we see, though? Many furry cartoon characters weren’t physically sexed, but given gendered social roles. Disney’s fox, Robin Hood, wore no pants and was explicitly physically androgynous, but still played the role of the masculine hero and saved the princess from the horrid King Richard. As we move into adulthood and gain entrance to a mature furry community, we see both sexed and non-sexed furs. As we reach puberty and onward, we discover that our furry personas can serve a sexuality and character that we adopt to explore ourselves and our interests.

Other than a more sexual attitude towards anthropomorphicized characters however, we also come through adolescence to a more gendered understanding of bodies. As we become more sexually active, we also become more aware of the physical characteristics of the men and women around us. We link together the concepts of developing breasts with wearing dresses and painting nails.

But it begs the question: Other than discovering our sexuality, how do we act furry? Outside yiffing and our playful understanding of furs, how do employ gender in a furry context?

Before I go on, I should explain more about what gender is, academically speaking. We understand gender to be male, female, and other non-binary identities like trans*, agendered, genderqueer and so forth. It is a learned trait. We are born into the world with little inherited information about how we should act, and even less (and debateably, any) genetic predisposition to gendered behaviors. Because someone is born with a uterus, we do not necessarily have to wear bras or have manners; these are learned behaviors. We are taught the boundaries of our gender through what not to do; boys aren’t given barbies often or girls dirt bikes (at least, in my time. It’s becoming more acceptable with each year.)

Gender is a learned identity that we embrace, and we are born into a world of people that have cisnormative attitudes, believing there are only two opposite genders. It is difficult for many people to understand that we are not born manly or womanly, but rather are taught it, and so they believe it is a disorder or mental imbalance when people are trans or non-binary.

Emily Martin, an esteemed anthropologist, wrote about how genderisms in our understanding of life even go so far as to become naturalized in our scientific language; we understand menstruation to be a disposal of “bad flesh,” a purge of bad ovaries, whereas sperm production is heralded as an amazing triumph of the human body. (This is in complete disregard for the fact that usually only a few sperm cells, if any, actually become children. The male body loses more reproductive cells than the female body was ever born with.) The eggs are seen as having a passive role in reproduction that receives the sperm who uses its tail to push up to the egg (where actually its tail flails randomly and has very little propelling power). It is never considered that a woman’s body incubates and supplements a fetus until it’s born, whereas the male plays a role for only a few moments. Gender even penetrates academia and what’s considered “objective”.

Gender theorists have come to the conclusion that these naturalized conceptions are contrary to the truth. Male and female are simply two ways of behaving that are on a continuum of gender. We are told what roles we should play, and most people believe it’s true. We are not gendered by nature, but nurture.

Consider sexual dimorphism. This term denotes the physical differences between the 2+ sexes of a species, where the difference in some is very obvious and in others very subtle. Often it takes specialized knowledge to know one from the other; would you be able to easily tell two parakeets apart? Female and male gorillas are in appearance extremely easy to tell apart, whereas sea horses may not be. We are most familiar with our own dimorphism, but when considering the world of the animal kingdom, our differences between male and female bodies are very minute. Even so, an approximate 1% (ref) of the human population is intersexed, further blurring the lines between sexes.

Furries (and just about everyone else) as children learn what it meant to be male or female. But we affect our gender by taking on non-human characteristics in our furry identities. The bodies that furries adopt in fursonas and characters are of blurred gender; animals themselves are hard to tell apart, it’s the human-like characteristics that are the telling features. Even then, they are fantasized in forms people cannot accomplish in themselves with curves too shapely or brawn nigh impossible. From our tails and colors of our furs to the noses and ears, we explore what gendered forms mean through how we draw furries and, by extension, ourselves. Our furryness puts us outside of a system where being female is simply ‘feminine’ where we extend what womanhood is into paws that humans can’t have.

Many furries go so far as avoiding sexing furry forms and create a body outside of even a furry binary system of male and female. Take Truxton (actually Lapfox), the furry techno musician who put out an album featuring an agendered hell-hound on the cover. Or look at some of the past Fur Affinity banners, where the characters don’t feature anything but a friendly non-human face. These are the fantasies we embrace and love, genders that don’t exist anywhere else that we create.

As an effect of our gendered society, we don’t often recognize that we are doing this. I may go so far to say that my theory may come across as misguided, a queer attempt at bringing furry into the domain of gender identity. I’d like to propose that we challenge ourselves to examine these distortions of gender and try to come to terms with what they mean to us. Undeniably, the majority of Blotch’s work features masculine bodies, but are humans usually that shapely, tall, or flexible? Furry art features a grotesque and beautiful caricature of human bodies in their physical, social, and political uses, but it is that abstraction that allows us to explore ourselves and our ever-changing vision of who our bodies are and what we would like them to mean.

Hi i guess i'll just lay it out. I've not known about furry for very long, and 3 weeks ago it caught my attention, however it has only been the past couple of days that i've started to really think about it in a positive way. Being a redditor this was my first place to come to get integrated with the community. I have no idea what any of the jargon is or what most of the terms mean, but i am looking forward to getting introduced to it. So yeh, just a young new furry who has no idea what is going on, thanks :)

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If you wake up as your fursona, your human self is next to you (and vice versa)

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Author: Dear Papabear, I stumbled upon your site a couple of weeks ago and have spent hours reading all your letters. I don’t typically read advice columns, but your responses drew me in not only because of the care and compassion in your advice, but also the practicality. It was that particular mix of qualities […]

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The More you Know!

Learn your fandom history folks! Don't let anyone tell you that just because you like MLP, or The Lion King, or even if you don't have a personal character you identify as, that you're not a Furry.

All it takes is an appreciation of Anthromoporphics in any media... and that's it.

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