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Furry Reddit - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 10:43
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Bear Simulator

Fursday - Reading List - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 10:36

The title gives you all you need to know as it's pretty much a bear simulator. You play in FPB (First Person Bear) and do bear things which include exploring, eating fish and plants, striking down anything that dare stand before your might, increasing your stats, sleeping and discovering mysteries of your forest home.

Difficult to tell if this is an oncoming trend of slapstick animal simulators or just coincidence.

I am left wondering what fish simulator is like. Dodging fishermen’s hooks, jumping up stream, avoiding bigger fish…

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To Find Friends He Needs to Overcome His Social Anxiety

Ask Papabear - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 10:34
Dear Papabear,

I'm having a problem which is leaving me feeling pretty down and depressed and I'm not sure what to do about it. Also just a warning this letter might be somewhat jumbled as I’m bad with words.

Basically, I’m lonely, not just for a relationship but for any form of social interaction in general. After high school I pretty much lost contact with all of my friends; my only one left is my best friend but with her job and her going to college we barely get to hang out. Honestly, most of my friends are online, but I've also been losing them as well. Over half the people on my Skype I barely see anymore.

I want to meet new people and make new friends and even maybe one day find that special someone, but I’m just not sure how to go about it. I am in every sense of the word .... a shut in. I don't like leaving my home that often. Usually, I only leave if its a necessity or if a friend invites me over, and with the latter barely being an option I don't go out and do things. I have only left my house once for a job interview in the past two months.

I've read some similar letters you've answered and I recall you recommending to go out and get hobbies etc., but I don't have any hobbies or interests that could get me out of my house. The only thing I could think of is a small fur meet that goes on in my town once a month, but I've been too nervous to go because 1) I have severe social anxiety; 2) I don't know how to approach anyone there since I wouldn't know anyone and I would be kinda embarrassed to just pop up out of nowhere.

Sorry if this letter was kind of unorganized and I hope answering this wont be too much trouble or a bother to you, and thank you for taking the time to read my letter.

From Ati

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Hi, Ati,

The solution to your problem is to overcome your social anxiety. No social anxiety, no blockade against meeting people, and once you are able to meet people you will make friends, and once you make friends, your loneliness will be gone.

There’s a difference between just being shy and having social anxiety—it’s a difference of degree, really. People who are merely shy can generally function in society, though timidly, while those with debilitating social anxiety find that it profoundly affects their ability to have a normal life. If you are spending most of your life “shut in” your home it will make it hard, if not impossible, to hold down a job, go to school, or have friends and loved ones in your life. And it sounds like a problem that is growing worse for you, given your statement that you had friends in high school but now are becoming more and more disconnected.

Some people believe that the advent of the Internet and social networks can be the solution for social anxiety because you can interact safely through a keyboard or webcam. But, as you are discovering, this notion is fallacious. As you become more disengaged from life (you have no hobbies or interests because you are not interacting with the real world around you and, thus, become remote from it, intellectually and spiritually) you have less and less to talk about. People, quite frankly, will find you boring and uninteresting to interact with. This explains why you are losing friends and contacts.

Papabear is finding this an increasing problem in the furry world, and, likely, the rest of American society as well. I’ve lost count of how many text conversations I’ve had like this:

Furry: hi

Papabear: hello

Furry: how are you?

Papabear: I’m fine, thanks.

Furry: what are you doing?

Papabear: I’m working, how about you?

Furry: chillin

Papabear: Great. Did you want something?

Furry: just to chat

Papabear: Okay, what do you want to chat about?

Furry: I dunno

Papabear: Well, I better get back to work then

Furry: Don’t go I want to talk

Papabear: Sure, what about?

Furry: dunno

Papabear: (making an excuse) Oh, gtg, my boss is calling me. Bye!

If this sounds like you, then maybe you can see the problem. It’s not fun to talk to someone with nothing going on in his head. The way to do that is to get involved with your life, so here are some things you can do to overcome your anxiety:

  • Start by getting yourself the self-help book Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness by Gillian Butler.  You can buy a used or Kindle copy for under ten bucks.
  • If you can, find a therapist to help you.
  • Social anxiety is based on your fears of what might happen should you interact with others, rather than what is actually happening. People suffering from this get freaked out because they believe people are constantly judging them. This is because you’re filling your head with negative thoughts of how people will see you. You therefore need to be aware of when you have these negative thoughts and, when you do, stop yourself and force your outlook into positive mode. For example, say you’re going to that interview, and the thought enters your head, “They won’t want me; I haven’t worked in a while and don’t have many skills....” Stop yourself right there and tell yourself, “I don’t know that. I can be a hard worker, and I’m willing to learn or do anything for this job, I’ll promise to do my best and look forward to working my way up the ladder!” Going to an interview with this outlook will give you a confident appearance which, I can tell you, is very appealing to a potential employer.
  • Start working on slowly, very slowly, getting out of the house and meeting people. Try a one-on-one before you go to a furmeet, for example. Try inviting a local furry to your home to do something innocuous like play a video game. After a little of this, try a small gathering of 2-4 friends, and work your way up to things like meets and cons.
  • Don’t get freaked out if you have a setback of some kind. Take a deep breath and get back on the horse and keep trying.

There is nothing more dull and isolating than being a hermit. Interacting with people is how you learn things, and when you learn stuff you gain an interest in this incredible world around you that is filled with fascinating, wondrous things to get excited about, and when that happens, you will have begun to live again, and part of living is finding friends and falling in love.

It’s all interconnected, Ati, but you have to take the first step.

Hugs,

Papabear

Masked criminal underworld [advertisement]

Fursday - Watch List - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 09:20

The piece does not give much away in terms of what is going on, but it does leave to your imagination world building where there are criminal gangs denoted by their chosen mask. In many respects I like how the story goes nowhere, because I am left to my own thoughts on what the backstory and context is between these groups. I would be stoked for a Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels style caper.

Directed by Adam Hashemi DP(s): Mandy Walker / Max Malkin Editor: Adam Pertofsky Music: House of Hayduk Producer: Julien Lemaitre Prod. company: Furlined Agency: Wieden + Kennedy

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Run DMC with a hippo [advertisement]

Fursday - Watch List - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 09:03

Do people actually get hippo soft toys as kids rather than collectors? Still that hippo is hipping and hopping, so to speak.

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Cyanide & Happiness - Put Em Down

Furries In The Media - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 09:01
I thought this might be of interest here because it features a fur who's way too much into being his fursona

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Commisions?

Furry Reddit - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 08:16

So I really want to get a commission of my dragon character done, but my problem is I am not old enough to get a credit card so I am not old enough to get a paypal account, thus making it basically impossible to get a commision done! Is there any way I can get one done?

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He Wants to Counsel Others, But His Traumatic Past Is Interfering

Furry News Network - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 07:56
Author: Hello Papabear, This question has been on my mind for quite a while. Like you, I’m trying to help others by listening when an ear is needed, and giving advice if that might give the other a better life. This probably stems from my past, which I won’t elaborate too much on; it might […]
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Furries find acceptance, friendship among active community

Furries In The Media - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 06:18

Here is an article from April 2, in the Central Florida Future, the student newspaper of the University of Central Florida:
http://www.centralfloridafuture.com/variety/furries-find-acceptance-friendship-among-active-community-1.2862872#.Uz1AEDk1yBs

The article describes the regular furmeets in Orlando, Florida, and interviews local furries Diedrich Wolff (unofficial leader and "popufur" cough-cough), Jonathon Ray (costume design assistant), Austin "Isaac" Beard, and Tyler "Dante" Smith.


Furries find acceptance, friendship among active community
Underground world of roleplay brings students together

By Bernard Wilchusky
Contributing Writer

Published: Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Updated: Thursday, April 3, 2014 00:04

A dog, a bear and a fox walk into a bar, but that isn’t the beginning of a joke.

It is, however, a little slice of what one might expect to see at the Oblivion Taproom on Tuesday evenings, when an average of 30 to 60 members of Orlando’s “furry” community meet at the bar for their weekly gatherings.

But what, pray tell, is a furry?

A furry is a person who dresses in a head-to-toe animal costume.

“A furry is anyone with an open mind,” said Diedrich Wolff, the unofficial leader of the Oblivion Taproom gatherings and a student at Valencia. “It’s a very diverse community. A lot of people are attracted, initially, to the art, but people come for all sorts of reasons.”

Wolff is known as a “popufur,” an informal title given to members of the furry community who are well-liked or renowned. He noted how the community has blossomed over the years, going from small get-togethers featuring around 10 of his friends to the large gatherings at Oblivion today. He estimated that Orlando alone boasts a community of more than 100 furs, with dozens more scattered throughout groups in Tampa, Miami and elsewhere.

“It used to be just a few of us,” Wolff said. “We’d get together at Steak ’n Shake and catch a movie at the dollar theater. Last year, the community exploded. One time, we had almost 90 people here at once.”

Indeed, on Tuesday nights the bar is replete with cat ears and bushy tails. And sometimes, a pair of furries in full-body costumes — known as “fur suits” — can be seen hugging and prancing about.

The fur suit is perhaps the most recognizable icon of the furry fandom. The suits, which each take about a week to make, can cost close to $1,000. Some have modifications that allow their jaws to articulate, their eyes to light up and even integrated speaker systems to project the wearer’s voice into the outside world.

“You know how brides go crazy over their wedding dress?” said Jonathan Ray, a costume design assistant. “The same thing goes for a suit. People want measurements, they want cloth choices, fiber choices, the works.”

Ray said that donning a fur suit comes with its own unique set of challenges. The headpieces restrict the wearer’s peripheral vision, and the fur on the suit’s outer layer causes its interior to become hot. Suiters often travel with a spotter who helps guide them through crowds and watches for signs of heatstroke or exhaustion.

“We always emphasize that fursuiters should have a spotter, especially if there are kids around,” Ray said. “No one is going to be happy if a suiter knocks over a little kid that they couldn’t see. Spotters are the ones who drag you away if you need to cool down and take a break.”

But furry art comes in many forms, and websites such as Fur Affinity, Inkbunny and DeviantArt provide portals for members of the community to connect and share their passion. In fact, the art provides the one common substrate among this community composed of performers, engineers and people from virtually all walks of life. All furry art features, in some form or another, the image of an anthropomorphized animal.

This animal character, personified with human characteristics, serves as the alias through which people operate in the fandom. And when furries aren’t donning their fur suits, they can often be spotted with their furry badges, emblazoned with the names and images of their animal aliases or fursonas.

For Austin Beard, a health sciences sophomore, his fursona, Isaac, is a character whose extensive background he developed through online roleplaying. Before he moved to Orlando, there just weren’t any real-world outlets for him to participate in the community, he said.

“Most of the people I’ve met, I’ve met on Twitter or online,” Beard said. “Getting to meet them in real life is great — you get to see them in person, and it’s like [your relationship] doesn’t even skip a beat.”

Still, he admits that he was hesitant to become a more active participant because of the historical stigma surrounding the furry fandom. Television shows such as “Dr. Phil,” “The Tyra Banks Show” and “CSI: Crime Scene Investigation” portray furries as mentally unstable or sexually deviant people who wear costumes as a means to fulfill their perverse fantasies. Beard, in his six years participating in the community, has yet to see a single act of “yiffing” — costumed sexual intercourse — that the fandom was made notorious for.

“Everyone thinks we’re weird; they think we do weird stuff,” Beard said. “That’s not what it’s about. Furries are just different people with a different sort of hobby — it’s no different than collecting stamps or RC cars.”

So what is it that has people participating in the furry fandom?

Without exception, the word on everyone’s lips was friendship.

“This is such an open and loving community,” said Tyler Smith, a sophomore marketing major who goes by the fursona Dante. “No matter what race, religion, sexual orientation or political views you have, no matter who you are, you’re going to find friends.

“If you have a fur suit, you’re loved.”
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Path Hyena - Who let the hyena run the con? This week we've brought Path Hyena onto the show to talk about how he stumbled onto being the con chair for Furry Fiesta the past couple years, and he also shares a few stories about what it's like to experience

WagzTail - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 06:00

Who let the hyena run the con? This week we’ve brought Path Hyena onto the show to talk about how he stumbled onto being the con chair for Furry Fiesta the past couple years, and he also shares a few stories about what it’s like to experience a con from the inside.

No animals were harmed in the recording of this episode.

Metadata and Credits WagzTail Season 3 Episode 13

Runtime: 30m

Cast: Levi, Path Hyena, Wolfin

Editor: Levi

Format: 128kbps ABR split-stereo MP3 Copyright: © 2014 WagzTail.com. Some Rights Reserved. This podcast is released by WagzTail.com as CC BY-ND 3.0. If distributed with a facility that has an existing agreement in place with a Professional Rights Organisation (PRO), file a cue sheet for 30:00 to Fabien Renoult (BMI) 1.67%, Josquin des Pres (BMI) 1.67%, WagzTail.com 96.67%. Rights have been acquired to all content for national and international broadcast and web release with no royalties due.

Podcast image belongs to  Mairieke IJsendoorn-Kuijpers, CC BY 2.0, used with permission. Path Hyena - Who let the hyena run the con? This week we've brought Path Hyena onto the show to talk about how he stumbled onto being the con chair for Furry Fiesta the past couple years, and he also shares a few stories about what it's like to experience a con fro...

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He’s Big, He’s White, He Looks Good in a Cape

In-Fur-Nation - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 00:29

Animator Mike Kunkel returns to comics in a big way with the first new Herobear & The Kid series in over ten years. Young boy Tyler and his large flying friend are back in Herobear & The Kid: Saving Time, a new full-color 5-issue mini-series coming this month from Boom! Studios’ Kaboom! imprint. “Henry, the family’s magical butler, is missing!! It’s up to Tyler and Herobear to figure out what happened to their friend…only they might learn a lot more  about Henry than they initially thought…and be forced to get help from an unsuspected  source.” Check out the interview with creator Mike over at Comic Book Resources.

Image c. 2014 Kaboom!

Image c. 2014 Kaboom!

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A Bunny and His Bun

Furry Reddit - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 00:16
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And so do us cats :3

Furry Reddit - Thu 3 Apr 2014 - 00:15
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FC-161 Bacon Felony

Furry News Network - Wed 2 Apr 2014 - 23:38
Author: studio@xanacreations.com (..::XANA::.. Creations) http://furcast.fm/logos/furcast-2013.png The British are cumming! Well, came, really. One of the best episodes in a while, thanks to our long time British correspondent who joins us in the US FurCast studio. Talk of FWA production, crazy news, some great emails. Enjoy! Download MP3 (Right-click, Save) Video below was recorded from our […] FC-161 Bacon Felony
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Wolf (x-post from /r/wallpaper)

Furry Reddit - Wed 2 Apr 2014 - 23:04
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My panda fursona I drew =]

Furry Reddit - Wed 2 Apr 2014 - 22:10
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