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submitted by GoingToTheOcean
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I'm looking to commission an artist to do a full-body colored & shaded piece of my character which is located here! [NSFW]. I'm sorry if this is not the place to find this, but I've only commissioned once so it's a new thing to me. I don't know many artists so I figured this strategy of just throwing myself out there might work. Thanks!

submitted by MrNobody95
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Gutentag Luvs,

My name is Jo, it is. Pleasure to meet you all. I've been drawing transformation art and some furry pieces under the name wrenzephyr2 on deviantart (wrenzephyr2.deviantart.com)

I'm certainly nothing special or fancy, but recently I've been given an opportunity to work on a project for my video art class. This will start out as a Final Project, but there is a possibility that with enough participation this could evolve into something more. However, before I can get into that I should jump right into what this is.

Being a mild part of the internet's specialized fetishes community, I wanted to do a piece that sort of sheds a light on the normal backgrounds and variety of people within the community. What I need is a series of videos showing just an uncut 8-10 min of the online communities' work space. This could be where you work, draw, write, roleplay, or network in general. The less you change or set up in the room the better, showing the genuine diversity between the videos and individuals. Though I want the space unchanged, I would very much like there to be one item, a token or icon representing your place in the community. Examples of this would be a furry costume piece, a piece of art, picture, or even your computer with something on the screen. Beyond that, I'd like you to have freedom of this project to give an unfiltered view of who you all are.

Right now the idea is very free form and I want to be completely anonymous for now until I see how interested people are in this.

Currently, the project is due in two weeks but I need as many volunteers as possible so please, speak up if you're interested or if anyone has questions I'll be stalking this page all weekend. I hope to hear from you all soon.

I look forward to working with you all, or at least doing work for the community.

-Jo <3

submitted by Joshartm
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Here is the deets on how to put your name down; I only ask that you put your refs down in the comment section of FA so as to not jump around too much before putting the names in the hat, so to speak. I want to see how this turns out; once a name has been chosen,

I'll let folks know, and maybe I can try to set it up that I do this again.

EDIT: Fauxhammer has been chosen! The generator has spoken! Good luck!

submitted by ICanTasteTheSin
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submitted by TheAsthmaDragon
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Hey! I just wanted to ask if there is a teamspeak for furs to chat and hang out? Would be awesome to talk to some of you guys~

submitted by Afasso
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submitted by JarekBloodDragon
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submitted by YiiUPwnMe
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Be completely honest with your answer. If you like the expressing yourself, say so. If you like the porn, say so.

Edit: everybody who leaves a genuine response gets an up vote from me.

submitted by forever_a10ne
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I admit, while I'm 'consuming' art and browsing I love things being imgur links. It makes browsing fast and I don't have to worry about too many ads, bad sites or having to make accounts. That said, I want to know from actual artists, are you ok with it? For instance, I want to link a ton of work I have found from the various artists I watch, mostly on FA. Since some of them make this their actual job and others really do rely on commissions I feel bad for hosting the image even if I link their FA page in the comments. Is it wrong to want to just link straight to the submission page for the art in question? Admittedly it's more a problem with some of the nsfw furry subreddits, but I want artists to get the recognition and traffic they deserve.

But as I said, some of the subreddits actually only allow linking via imgur and won't let you link DA/FA/Inkbunny/Weasyl/Sofurry or any other site. I just can't put art there because I feel bad for the artists. That said, if artists are more than fine with me uploading their art to imgur and sharing their art with a link to their website of choice in the comments, I will probably upload some albums.

I know this can also be a personal thing, but I feel it would be rude to approach every artist I watch and ask them to share their art. I think most would be ok, but some people are very possessive of their art. I can fully understand and respect that. I just want people to see art I think is worth sharing with the community and I don't know what the best and ethical way would be.

submitted by Ralanost
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Is there a con going on in Rosemont, IL right now? Was driving through and saw some people. Got a bit curious

submitted by Sunbeamed
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Last Months Theme: November's Theme: The Roaring Twenties (1920's)

This months theme will be Winter / Holidays or Apocalypse theme. I will put two different sections for art.

Links to HOLIDAY art will be posted below here

• - /u/FXscreamer's art: Reddit

Links to HOLIDAY Stories will be posted below here

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Links to HOLIDAY Fursuit Photos will be posted below here

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I will create a post for you all to vote for January's theme at the end of this month - maybe someone can help us out with a decent polling system this time, since reddit's is a bit odd.

Links to APOCALYPSE art will be posted below here

• /u/lolanthe's art: Deviant Art
• /u/peppermintbytthole's art: Imgur

Links to APOCALYPSE Stories will be posted below here

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Links to APOCALYPSE Fursuit Photos will be posted below here

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submitted by iTo
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submitted by Hemms3
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submitted by NoizEboi
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…and a holiday bonus video from those weird balloon animal video guys.

submitted by Foxes281
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Survival instincts are strong in this one.

Hey there, Papabear,

First, I'd like to throw some well deserved admiration your way. I think what you've got running here and what you do for so many people is wonderful. It's comforting to know there's a place where furries can ask their questions without being judged. So thank you for all the help you've given people.

Okay now onto the question. I've been with my mate for about 6 months now, and I'm under the impression that our relationship has nowhere to go but up. Not to say that there aren't problems. Every relationship has them, but we're willing to talk through them, and try to avoid sweeping problems under the rug... Unfortunately I have this tendency to bite my tongue whenever I feel there's a problem that I think will escalate poorly. It's not because I don't want to deal with them. Mentally I can handle myself, or at least I think I can. I don't lose myself in streams of madness and make connections that don't make sense.

The problem is the physical aspect. Inside I know I should speak my mind. I've been working on breaking out of this habit with mixed results since before my mate and I even met. But when the time comes my throat clams up really, really tightly. I lose my ability to speak and I shake and start to cry. I know it's not needed, and I don't want to do it, but it always happens. The closer I am to the person emotionally, the stronger it is. So with my mate it's agony.

It's been a problem since I was a wee kitten, and Since I've had so much time to analyze it I'm pretty sure I know where it stemmed from. When my parents divorced I was left the oldest of three siblings, and as such It became my job to fill as kind of a half parent for my brothers. I kinda took on the role of protecting them from certain things. One of these things was the anger issues my father had. Lots of getting yelled at, harshly punished for being a child, and feeling emotionally held hostage. I loved him and bit my tongue and was afraid to make waves lest I be punished again. It has done a deal of damage to my emotional growth. But I have acknowledged that it was wrong for him to treat me that way, It was not my fault, things have gotten better, and my father and I have a healthy relationship now. I don't let him bully me anymore and I can stand up for myself.

So Knowing all this, Why do I still have so much trouble with this physical reaction? I can't be clamming up like this forever. What if it happens in a professional situation or in front of someone where it would be costly to my future. How can I train myself to calmly and collectively speak up when we need to speak seriously?

Hope this wasn't too all over the place. Thanks!

Bloo (age 22)

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Dear Bloo, 

Sounds like you’ve come a long way and have done very well. You know what your problem is and even understand its root cause. You’ve also developed excellent relationship skills with both your mate and the cause of your issues: your father. Good for you! Outstanding, really!

What you have left over is a bad habit. When you do something long enough, physically or mentally, it becomes ingrained in you, a part of you. So, this choking back of your ability to speak is really a learned behavior, almost an addiction, and can be treated as such.

One way to break bad behavior is redirection. For example, when someone is a smoker, a large part of their bad habit may be the simple physical motion of having something in their hand and putting it between their lips and taking it out again, etc. That motion can be very comforting. So, for some people, they can break their smoking habit by substituting a lollipop for the cigarette. I have known people for whom this works.

At times, when the behavior is really bad, hypnotists do a redirection, too. I’ve heard of hypnotists treating suicidal people by implanting the thought in their head that whenever they feel like killing themselves they should instead snap their fingers or sing a song. This, though, is really just a patch until the real psychological trauma can be treated.

With you, the psychological aspect has already been addressed. Again, it is merely the behavior that has to be retrained.

You need to redirect the anxious energy you experience when you are engaged in a verbal confrontation. You might try putting a worry stone in your pocket—one of those smooth stones with an indentation that your rub with your thumb when you feel anxious. Squeeze and stress balls work similarly.

The other exercise you can practice is having a dialog with your boyfriend under controlled conditions. That is, the two of you go to a calm, quiet place where there are no loud noises or distractions. Plan this ahead of time and agree on some things you will discuss. They don’t have to be serious issues, but just things that you might have different opinions about. Agree ahead of time that during your conversation no one will be forced to agree with the other person. You are just talking. There is no pressure to come to a conclusion. Agree on one to three topics ahead of time and have your talk at a scheduled time. The purpose of this is to create a situation where you are not faced with a sudden, unexpected confrontation. This will, in turn, prevent what is really a reflexive action in your throat to constrict and be silent. It will also train your mind to understand that there will be no harsh repercussions for expressing a contrary point of view the way you experienced it as a young person with your father. Do these sessions once or twice a week until you feel comfortable with expressing your opinions. Combine them, if necessary, with the worry stone or stress ball.

Be patient. Unlearning a behavior can take weeks, even months or more. As long as you see progress, you’ll eventually unlearn the bad behavior and feel much less stressed out in the future.

Bear Hugs!

Papabear

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