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I haven't been here for long, but it seems as though people give their sonas traits that the creator normally doesn't have. I tried to make mine look as physically like me as possible, and I'm wondering why many people don't. (Expression of the desired self? Because it looks cool? Because I've always wanted to be blue, ripped, and the captain of an interdimensional fleet?)

submitted by Polaric
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Hey there, name's Kou. I'm kinda bored, and I don't have all that many friends, so I figured I'd just see if anyone wants to do something over Skype.

Here's a little bit of info about my sona.

Name: Kou. I'm not creative.
Gender: Female, my sona doesn't acually have any genitals though. I'll explain the reason for this in a bit.
Appearance: About 4'3" tall black cat, red eyes, white paws, very flat chest, anywhere from 2 to an infinite number of arms (she can change how many she has), usually wears glasses, an unzipped white jacket with a red tank underneath, and a short white skirt with a red stripe. Under the clothes, she has no vag/nipples, the reason being just that I don't like them. Hope you don't mind.
Likes: Video games, all food, yarn, typical cat stuff.
Dislikes: Fighting, water(scared of it), people being annoying.

And now a bit about what...kinks, I guess you could say, that I like.

Like: Mainly extra limbs or other body parts, other interests include fattening, micro and macro, age regression, breast expansion...it's really quite a long list. It's actually a bit embarrassing.
Dislike: Genitals and sex, I just don't get the appeal of them. Also gore, scat, pee, any other bodily waste.
Anything you're not sure about, just ask.

My Skype username is nekoukai if anyone wants to send me something. Keep in mind that I'm in the middle of a move, so I might not be on all tht much this week. if you have any questions just put them inmthe comments, okay?

Thanks!

EDIT: Going to sleep for today, but the offer still stands. just send me a message and I'll reply when I'm up.

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submitted by Polaric
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My question-in the gist, is this;

Was anyone else dangerously close to being a anti-fur before being in this fandom? I wuz :/

Background:

I had the typical outsiders view, until I saw a local news program criticise furries. Quick fact about me: whenever I see something on the media, I immediately disagree with the obvious biass they are trying to push (most commonly violence irl in the relation to video game violence). The opinion I had of Furries was pretty much based on what a couple of my mates thought, and YouTube comments (yeah me, good sources :s) and I was pretty anti the whole thing.

However, getting back to the news report, I decided to do some digging, and at first, my opinion seemed valid. Then I dug deeper, happened to get into a chat with another mate who was a Furry, which led me here a while ago. And it really only took a few minutes to realise that I was the asshole, not this group. Eventually, I sorta gave in to the fact that I love this fandom, and here I am now, a while ahead.

So, I was wondering, as I said, has anyone else had a similar experience? If so what was it?

Thanks, luv ya all <3

submitted by TehWhitehart
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What: Join us for a Christmas party this Saturday featuring movies, Secret Santa, mystery gifts, games, etc.

When: Saturday, December 20th from 6pm to Midnight

Where: 638 Grove Avenue Wood River, IL 62095

The current plan is to start off next Saturday evening with A Christmas Story on Netflix (if it is on Netflix, that is) with Chinese dinner to follow the movie.

People are welcome to contribute money towards the dinner if they wish, and it would certainly be appreciated, but it is not required. Movies will be decided by group vote the rest of the night.

After dinner, we will be opening Secret Santa gifts and mystery gifts. To be eligible for a mystery gift, you must be one of the first ten people to arrive regardless of whether or not you participated in Secret Santa. The gifts will be given out with a random drawing.

As for drinks and snacks, some will be provided but for the most part it will be bring your own.

This is going to be a lot of fun! I look forward to seeing you all!

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Hello everyone, welcome back to the weekly furry social thread! Sorry this was a little late, I'm all out of sorts because of finals coming up next week, but we're back and better than ever. Introduce yourself to people, make some friends, and have fun with it :3

submitted by ObsoletePixel
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I guess this could apply to just writing in general, but I figured I may as well ask here. I'm writing a furry story (Don't ask what it's about. Or just PM if you really want to know), and it's killing me right now. When I try to write, I just get paranoid like "How can I put more detail? How can I make this sentence structure more varied? How can I make my writing sound more like this other story I read?" and I just kind of end up freezing and not writing much at all.

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be specific please!

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submitted by Phazeywolf
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Dear Papabear,

First I ask that this not be published. Anyway, I'm in a situation that both bothers me and causes me to start to lose some confidence in the fandom. I will try to provide as much information as I can, so here it goes.

In July I attended my first ever convention: Anthrocon 2014. With me was, at the time, my non-furry friend, who has, since attending AC, joined the fandom. While there we talked about getting fursuits together and attending Anthrocon every year that we can, which excited me greatly. I have always wanted a fursuit. Just the idea of bringing my fursona to life and making people smile as him makes me happy. So upon returning home I started my search for a fursuit maker. I researched, I priced, I was careful. I found a maker on Furaffinity; I researched her, found no bad comments about her, saw a couple suits she made, and so I proceeded to contact her and commissioned her to build me a partial,

She charged me $600, which I paid in full upon her request for me to do so. She gave me the completion date of September. I tried to keep in contact with her, which proved difficult every time. And when I did finally did get in contact with her I got an excuse why she wasn't providing pictures of the progress and was told that the completion changed to October.

I figured, okay, things happen, it's life. Then again, hard to get a hold of her, and again every time I did, excuses why I wasn't receiving photos of the progress, and again time change to November, and, yes, same thing again.

Now it's December and I have tried to be in contact with her and have not heard from her in over a month. I'm not sure how I should proceed as, honestly, this was my first-ever commission. I've never even commissioned art, and I am afraid if what has happened has truly happened I may never trust to commission again. So my question on this: am I wrong in thinking that I have been scammed? Should I cut my losses? And is there anything I should be doing that I'm not? 

Thank you in advance,

Frustrated

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Dear Frustrated,

Please do not “lose confidence in the fandom” because of the actions of one slow fursuit maker. One should never condemn an entire group of people because of one or two bad eggs.

That said, and although I have written on this topic before, this is a good opportunity to talk once again about contracts, verbal contracts, and your legal rights.

One of the things that has long frustrated this bear about furry businesses is that furries who sell goods don’t seem, for the most part, to understand a damn thing about business—whether you are a business owner or a client. I chalk this up to the culture of informality in the fandom. That is, we have established a chummy community within the fandom in which we believe—often falsely—that fellow furries will treat us fairly because they are part of one big happy family. Therefore, we do not take precautions when it comes to business.

There once was a time when “a man’s handshake was as good as his word” (or pawshake, in this context). That’s no longer true, whether in the mundane or in the furry world. I have to use two paws to count the number of times my mate has been f***ed over by business people who did not honor their verbal agreements.

I’ve encountered some of this myself (not with my fursuit maker, Beastcub, who is super-pawsome and worked very closely with me to deliver an outstanding result), but with a certain artist who took over two years to complete a commission I had wanted for a Christmas gift (hence, timeliness was important). While he eventually did get around to it, I will never commission him again.

And that is one thing many artists in the fandom don’t seem to get: if you mistreat customers, eventually the word-of-mouth will bite you in the butt. It’s bad for business.

In hindsight (too late for you right now, but perhaps helpful in the future), you should always get a written agreement with an artist or fursuit maker. If they refuse to agree to one, tell them “no thanks” and find someone else. Secondly, never never never pay 100% for the commission up front. The artist I work with for this site, Dan the Bear, for example, never demands I pay him until I am satisfied with the result and he has delivered it to me.

With fursuit makers, because they have to buy materials for your fursuit, the proper thing to do is treat them like a contractor working on your house. When I have a carpenter or plumber or electrician doing work, I pay him or her for all the supplies they need as soon as we agree on what’s to be done. Then, when they are done with the job, I pay for labor. The same should be true for any respectable fursuit maker. Get an invoice from them for the materials they need and pay for those. Then, when the finish, give them the rest. You could also pay in “milestones.” That is (and this can work for larger projects), pay for completion of certain steps. For instance, pay 25% for when the head is completed, another 25% for the body, and then the balance when it is all done.

The fact that the fursuit maker in your case refused to show you photos makes her, indeed, suspect. It might be that she was once reliable (as online evidence seemed to indicate), but people can go from good to bad sometimes.

Okay, so what to do from this point? Well, you don’t have a contract, but what Papabear is hoping and praying for is that you saved your email and any other correspondence with her. These are considered legal evidence of an agreement—especially if you have emails from her saying, yes, she received the $600 (or some other evidence, such as a PayPal receipt) and, yes, she was going to complete it by such and such a date.

While written contracts are best, verbal contracts are still considered enforceable. Gather up these emails, and if you have witnesses, get them on your side, too. With those on your side, contact the fursuit maker and tell her that you are unhappy with her lack of progress and want a refund immediately. If she refuses, tell her that you have email evidence that she received your money and agreed to make the fursuit, and if she still refuses tell her that she leaves you no choice but to take legal action—that is, you will take her to small claims court (tips on how: http://www.peopleslawyer.net/legal-topics/small-claims-court.html). Here’s some info to know if the person you are suing is in another state: http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/free-books/small-claims-book/chapter9-2.html.

Another thing she might do is ask for another extension. If so, and you feel kind and generous, that is up to you to accept. BUT! If you do accept it, this time get a written contract that includes a date of delivery and a description of what, exactly, is to be delivered to you in satisfactory condition. Also include a clause saying you have a right to refuse the work if you consider the quality unacceptable (e.g., she hands you a wad of fabric with two eyes glued to it).

Don’t threaten to bad mouth her on furry forums. You can actually get into legal trouble yourself sometimes when you do that (she might accuse you of slander). But do tell her in no uncertain terms what you expect from her and when.

You’re in an unenviable place right now, but with some work—and if you stick to your guns—you can get this straightened out and, hopefully, learn from the experience.

Good luck!

Papabear

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Dear Papabear,

Thank you for your advice. I will take it to heart and act upon it. I do have the emails and PayPal receipts. Update on the situation: this morning, after I emailed her twice in a week about needing to speak with her, I reviewed an email from her with only three words: "my laptop broke." And this upset me a great deal, so I am definitely going to be requesting a refund and searching for a new maker. And again thank you for the advice.

Hi all. I am part of a small web development team currently working on Fursuiter.net , FURSTRE.AM and a few other projects.

We are looking for help from other devs within the community for things like programming (Python, HTML5, LESS, MYSQL etc) and also looking for cloud engineers (consulting and maybe OpenStack deployment).

If you are interested in working with a broad range of skilled people to make awesome sites and projects then please get in touch by dropping me a private message!

Jack,

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