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Oh, Hiya!
OHiya, the Art of Making Friends is the name for a concept created by illustrator Jason Tharp and a group of fellow artists who live in Ohio (get it?). The idea is to use funny animals and other strange creatures to encourage people to greet one another — be they friends or strangers — and learn more about one another and how to make friends. The creatures of Ohiya each have their own unique personality quirks, and how they learn to get along together with so many differences provides the lessons in friendship that Ohiya is all about. To start things off Mr. Tharp and his associates have created a set of t-shirts, buttons, and posters featuring characters like Mythaken the sasquatch, Zoomi-Pop the panda, and Katinja the… well, cat ninja! More is on the way, and you can see it all at the Ohiya Friends web site.
image c. 2012 by Jason Tharp
Want to create a character for a long-running furry webcomic?
Feature film: ‘Toys in the Attic’
Short film: Loscon XIV’s ‘Clearance Papers’
Wanted to take goofy fursuit pictures, but they came out creepy instead (which is okay too)
Cheap Commissions! Help a fellow-fur out?
http://www.furaffinity.net/user/emmii/ http://xprincesskatx.deviantart.com/
I am doing cheap commissions right now! Needing extra cash and practice! My price list is in my journals, and is now 25% off what is listed! Want to bargain? I'm down!
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Matrices – August 2012 Featured Fursuiter of the Month
Dealing with Homophobic Parents ... Again
I'm in a long distance relationship with my mate of almost four years now.
Recently we've been trying hard to see each other since we haven't exactly met more than twice. The only problem besides some financial issues is dealing with his parents.
Recently, we both came out to our parents, him about being gay and me about being bi. His was more recent, I had come out about a year or so earlier. My parents have taken it lightly and tend to just avoid the situation or bringing it up, but I can at least discuss my boyfriend coming down to see me sometime this year for about a week. His parents instead want absolutely nothing to do with him being gay or me, accusing me of being a sexual predator even though I have been in this committed relationship for so long. They also tend to act as if I do not exist and even though I have tried to talk to them on several different occasions over the phone or webcam, they instead get angry and accuse my boyfriend (who is older than me by the way) of rallying against them. I don't understand what kind of sense that makes.
His siblings, especially his sister, knew he was gay and I actually got a good friendship going on with his sister, however it is surprising me how she along with his brother, are ganging up on him as well.
I stopped trying to talk to them out of fear that they would do something to my mate, but it uneases me that they would choose to ignore such a big part of their son. My boyfriend also suffers from some anger issues which he is trying to fix, but have clouded his mind so much as to not trust his parents anymore and won't try to talk to them anymore about us.
We're trying to make plans to meet up this winter, but so far every plan has fallen through due to parental difficulties. I'm planning on moving out next year, but he won't be able to for another 2 years.
I do love him, and I am sure of that. And I'm also sure he loves me as well. I'm just scared that something might happen between him and his parents and I want to know if there is anything possible I can do to help calm this situation down.
Thanks for your help,
DT
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Dear DT,
Right to the point: there is nothing you can do to intervene between your boyfriend and his parents to “calm the situation down.” Any involvement you have will only be perceived by his parents as interference or worse, so it would be wise for you not to try.
There are several reasons why people are homophobic: 1) they believe what their religious leaders tell them that it is sinful; 2) they were indoctrinated from a young age to hate and fear homosexuals, bisexuals, and others who deviate from accepted heterosexual norms; 3) they are ignorant and don’t really understand it and, therefore, as is natural in humans, they fear what they do not understand; and 4) the most homophobic people are actually aroused by gay sex themselves, which scares them, apparently, into being aggressively anti-gay. See this interesting article: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-big-questions/201106/homophobic-men-most-aroused-gay-male-porn).
If religion is not the issue here with either of your parents, then one thing you can each do with your own parents is try and educate them. The more they know about gay and bisexual people, the more they can understand that it is not a threat to them (there are dozens, if not hundreds, of books on this topic, so I will just say a little research at the library could lead you to some good books).
You are also doing well by setting yourself up as an example of a non-promiscuous bisexual person by being in a long-term relationship with one man. It might take time for your parents to see this, but eventually they will have to admit that you defy the stereotype in this manner the longer you two stay together.
Prejudices and fears such as homophobia are usually ingrained deeply into the human psyche. They are therefore extremely difficult to reverse. It would be very surprising to see any homophobe suddenly “see the error of their ways” and become accepting of gay or bi people overnight. People can change, however, over time. It takes effort and persistence on your part, and sometimes even then you will end in failure.
If I were you, DT, I would continue to make plans to be with my boyfriend and work on what will hopefully become a loving relationship that will endure. In the meantime, continue to show your family, by example, that you are by no means horrible people who deserve rejection. Be kind and open to your family (without kowtowing to them) and don’t aggressively try to change them. With luck, they will eventually come to their own conclusions that will benefit all of you.
Bravo to you for being yourself and being open about it.
Hugs,
Papabear
Heart Shaped Box and furries
So I spoke about this some past posts ago and now it is completed. Take a listen to the cover song “Heart Shaped Box” (Orginally from: Nirvana) this wonderful tickle in your ears was completed by: branwyn Lead Vocal, Bass ; gsd Back Up Vocal, Guitar, Shaker, Audio Editing ; colson Mixing and Mastering. You can follow any of them on the FA’s or their perspective pages. I actually did enjoy this, even though I’m not a fan of hardcore music. I hope to hear from them some more main stream stuff OR hell even original tunes!
Does anyone know of any currently active online furry radio stations?
- Apparently the one(s) that I used to listen to from time to time are no longer active.
I'm specifically looking for online "radio stations" that play music 24/7, and not so much for podcasts or for radio programs that are scheduled for once a week or whatever.
(Though what the heck, if you have any good podcasts or programs to recommend, go ahead.)
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Long time hater giving furries a second look
For a really long time now, I've always disliked furries. I thought they were weird and creepy, and didn't see the appeal at all. But since then I've met quite a few furries irl, and I've come to a point where I think I should stop hating on you guys. And I will admit that there are some pretty damn talented furry artists.
So therefore I've decided to change my opinion on furries entirely. At least from "Faraway disgruntlement" to "Moderate approval".
WOO YEAH!
Edit: You people certainly like your dragon dildos.
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