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Hello Papa

First time writing to you. My question is a difficult one to ask but I will try. I love my mate with all my heart but we’re so different. I’m calm, laid back, and have no problems with just living my life with what comes my way. He is very angry all the time, thinks life is just crap, hates to do the things I want to do. We argue a lot and its been pretty rough for me to be with him. He is very negative. Most our fights are because I say something he doesn’t like. I find it hard to be myself around him. I feel as if because I’m changing for him I’m losing a lot if not all of my friends. No one likes him because he’s so angry and rough. I’ve known him for 4 years now and I’ve been dating him for 1 year in September. I would rather work out my problems with him but he is really stubborn about everything. Though compared to when I first met him he is 300% better. He used to yell at me for not being next to him when he woke up. Needless to say it’s been a rough year with him. I love him and I wish no harm to come to him. My biggest fear is if we break up he will kill himself. That happened to me once before and I never want to go through it again, but should I break up with him?

--a fox

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Dear Fox,

Papabear is sorry to hear that you had a previous mate who committed suicide, but you should not make your current decision based on that experience. Love is an illogical thing, to be sure, but how you can be in love with someone who is negative, controlling, mean, and makes you change who you are is beyond me.

You are just as important in this relationship as your mate, yet you are allowing yourself to be abused and unhappy, losing friends, and getting yelled at. You even say it has been a rough year. What, in the Great Spirit’s name, is the attraction here?

Papabear will tell you this from experience, too: just because you love someone doesn’t mean you should be with him or her. Case in point: my ex. I still love her, but when I discovered I was gay it was pretty darn clear that continuing the relationship would be impossible. That situation is not identical to yours, but you get the point.

You deserve to be happy, Fox, and staying with this guy is not going to make you happy. He is a black hole of negativity and he will suck you into it if you are not careful.

Bear Hugs,

Papabear 

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SPNAK!

Edit: I'm done for now. :> Thanks for all the requests and stuff! Here's all of them and some other stuff in the same pile: http://nidil.tumblr.com/post/30531826195/more-requests-and-stuff

I'm somehow completely out of ideas.

Post your characters maybe? Or give other ideas, idk, help ;v;

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So I'm finally bothering to get further into the fandom, and I'm looking for an artist who can do a modest reference sheet for me.

Can anyone suggest someone they have had good experience with in the past?

Most the reference sheets I've seen are around $80, I'd like to lower that - I'm not looking for an amazing reference sheet, just a nice basic one with a little colour.

Suggestions?

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FWIW is excited to announce our upcoming episode will be aired from Las Vegas, Nevada!  Vegas is known for all types of gaming – be it pinball, table games, or electronic games and it seems like no better place to talk about our next topic, video games. We’ll be reading your emails, sharing in video [...]

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Requesting links to CLEAN furry wallpapers? Just the standard resolution. Preferably Zen or some good furry artist X3 Thanks guys~

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Welcome to KnotCast 190, where theres Savrin, Shiva, and Fuzz talking about kinks, transgender issues, gender fluidity and such. Heres a link illustrating that.~ Androgynous model in car commercial http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/22/stav-strashko-toyota-commercial_n_1822990.html Ermahgerd~ http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/ermahgerd http://ermahgerd.jmillerdesign.com/#!/translate Use our coupon code "knot" at AdamEve.com for a great deal~ Episode 190 - Wheel of Fetishes 4

Hello r/furry! I've started a new group for furries on World Community Grid. WCG is a large public grid computing network which aims to provide massive computing resources for research projects which benefit humanity. What these projects all have in common is that they require extremely intense calculations to be done on incredibly large data sets to gather important information. By joining and donating idle CPU time you weren't using anyway, you can help make the world a better place.

So why am I posting this in r/furry? As the title says, there's a newly formed computing team just for furries! Please join to represent the fandom and demonstrate how furries can make a positive impact when they work together. You can view team statistics here. To sign up with World Community Grid and join Furries For SCIENCE!, go here.

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